His Mother sits him down for the talk.
"You aren't God's gift to women, but only God's gift to me your Mother. You had access to my care because your Father paid for my services. Sex is expensive because reproduction is a privilege. Now it's your turn to find a woman worth supporting. Don't expect her to be free. And don't think women won work equality by trading off their sexual and reproductive value. If that were the case feminism has sacrificed the needs of children for the benefit of employers."
Whore hater. Independent of age. He's too selfish to find a woman that could get him across the grow up bridge. Secretly, he wants women to be his mother and do all his social/emotional work for him. Divorce Court is his first shocking, I say shocking, clue that his wife provides valuable services. He sends his family to the government for support then turns around and refuses to pay taxes for a "nanny" state. Since he's never met anyone more important than himself, the real cheat lands squarely on his children. He uses them to meet his need of the day, and then finds ways to punish them for costing him anything. To him, raising children is a process of driving them away so that he can be the only child to his long suffering, powerless, free for love wife.
Her Father sits her down for the talk.
"Boys and girls are not equal. Once you're a Mother, you'll get that. If the boy hasn't been willing or able to bear the costs of dating you, how is he going to react to the tremendous responsibilities you ask him to share? Why should he buy the cow if he get's the milk for free? For boys, there is no alternate developmental trigger powerful enough to get him across the grow up bridge. Unless he has to pay for sex, he'll never make a better offer (to support anyone in marriage). In fact free sex will un-wean him, sure he's "committed", but why would you marry that? Everything you do with males comes with an opportunity cost, for you but not for him. Don't expect taxpayers to make up for his free ride."
Woman who asserts her sexual and reproductive value. Whoring is perfectly legal, it's taking US currency that's illegal. No big deal, as we know what a dubious proposition the dollar has become (due to massive mission creep). Sure, there's such a thing as too cheap or too perverted, but she's operating in an environment where the response "If you get to be a whore, I get to be a rape murderer." is socially acceptable. That level of terrorism is meant to turn her into a free-for-love girl. The adult roles are virgin, wife or whore (for any sex outside of marriage). As long as the male has to be a man, don't condescend.
Independent of secondary sexual attributes, she does not have the cognitive ability to negotiate for sex. If she joins the boys on the wrong side of the grow up bridge, she impairs their development. Yet they cheer her on as if this is how everyone hooks up. Petrified of being a whore, her free love is the payoff for the terror campaign against female sexuality. Nevertheless, her allies, pornographers, pedophiles, pimps, rapists...all purported owners of female bodies (though they don't inhabit one), all except perhaps her current parasite paramour, call her a bad word, starts with s. She jumps at the chance to borrow status from a husband. Then she's trapped. Once a wife, she wouldn't think of holding her husband responsible for his own actions, so she projects moral agency onto the other woman (that whore). Jesus cares the most about this girl, because Christians have abandoned her and colluded with her bullies.